I’ve been asked that quite a few times and I ask My subs the very same question.
My answer: About 20 years ago an ex decided that he wanted to spice up O/our sex life. Try new things. I was game.
Until he told Me to get on My knees and suck his cock and yanked Me down by My hair.
I laughed.
Yep, I laughed.
I couldn’t help it! It was just too funny. Here is this slender guy, same height as Me, telling Me to do something. With a straight face. I couldn’t contain My laughter. And, no, he didn’t find it funny.
The sex was good though. I didn’t mind being tied to the bed so he could ‘torment’ My body…ha…there was torment oh hell yes, but…not quite the way I think he planned. I definitely wasn’t complaining when he lavished My body with kisses, licks or brought Me to multiple orgasms with his tongue…or fingers…or cock.
Things turned one evening though. he decided he wanted Me try dominating him. he didn’t think it would turn him on. he figured I’d laugh again. he figured it would just heighten the sex. I dressed in a black mini skirt and tube top and slid My feet into black heels. he handed Me the flogger and stood in front of Me, completely naked, his eyes on the floor, his head bent, his hands folded in front of him.
I told him to bend over the bed and spread his legs. I ran My hands over his body, knowing where every spot was. I knew his body as well as My own. his nipples hardened as I ran My nail over them. I pinched them….hard…harder. his breath quickened. I draped the tails over his shoulders…dragging them across his back. I pulled back and swung. The sound of the falls hitting his back was almost orgasmic for Me. I wanted more. I swung again and again. Every hit making contact with his back or ass. After a couple of minutes, his back and ass were red. he was moaning. his cock was so hard. I reached around with My hand and roughly grabbing his cock and pulled.
he came.
My black thong was soaked. I slid on the bed in front of him and told him to lick Me til I came all over his face.
he obeyed like a good boy.
I’ve been hooked ever since.