So I got a violet wand for Christmas from an awesome sub. Saturday night it was broken during a session. It was an accident. But, if the sub had stayed still like I told him, it wouldn’t have been broken. he kept jerking around, dragging his legs up and yes, I had him restrained to the bed. Next time (if there is a next time) his ass will be restrained spread eagle. No more of this rolling around crying like a damn baby. For someone who loves to be hurt, he didn’t act like it. Although, he did take the hits admirably. Oh, he did promise to buy a replacement for broken piece. As of right now, he has yet to keep his word – and oh yes, that does piss Me off.
Damn…
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Erotic Electrostimulation
WOW!! That is a mouth full!!! lol…I got a new toy for Christmas. A brand new violet wand. I’ve been wanting one for years and finally, I have one!! I have played with other electrical devices…TENS was fun…I enjoy electrical play. I love the reactions from the subs.
E-Stim is used to stimulate sexually. Well…so they say. I love using electrical play to zap a very willing sub. I don’t involve the wand in every session. I discuss the scene with every sub and if they are not into electrical play, I don’t involve it. Sadly. I wish everyone enjoyed electrical play.
What’s funny, is that the sub who gave Me the wand, is not into electrical play. he did offer to let Me test the wand out on him, which I did, and of course he said it stung…lol…
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Female subs…
Doesn’t work for Me. Probably because I am Dominant. I believe that Women are superior and should be worshipped and obeyed. I don’t believe Women should be made into sex slaves.
I am speaking basically because of one situation I am aware of. This young lady is very submissive in nature. She has no desire to do anything with her life and is more than willing to be ordered around and to be used as a personal sex slave. In exchange, she is cared for and has no need for a job or friends outside the house. I do not agree with this. However, this is not My life nor My situation. Should she ask Me for help however, I shall attempt to help her.
To Me, being submissive in bed is one thing. That can be fun. To a point. As long as W/we are all aware that it’s just temporary. But, to be a long-term sex slave? No, not for Me. Even if I had a live in slave, they would have a job, they would still be allowed to have friends and family outside of O/our world. Of course, all with My permission of course. Everything they do or say is because My approval / blessing / permission was given.
I am very well aware that some women are submissive. And, as long as that is their choice, it doesn’t affect Me. However, I have met quite a few couples where the male was dominant and the female was submissive but she had no real interest in the lifestyle much less being submissive.
I firmly believe in being in the lifestyle because you want to be – don’t do it for someone else.
Orgasm Denial
Orgasm Denial is rather fun isn’t it? Well, especially for the person who is doing the denial – although, I believe that the person receiving is also quite happy with the edgeplay. They might deny the pleasure because let’s face it, being brought to the big O once is what W/we all crave right? But to be denied the delicious feelings could very well be hell on earth. Sort of – what if you are brought to the point of orgasming many times. How does your body react? The orgasm is supposed to be more intense. More fulfilling. More – well…everything. It’s keeping you on the edge of the cliff of pleasure and mix in pain and there ya go…perfection.
I have dabbled in orgasm denial and I’ve been told I have a sadistic laugh. I tend to giggle when I stop you from obtaining that desperately wanted orgasm. I build you back up only to leave you hanging…breathing hard…almost panting…begging Me for that delicious release. Knowing that I hold your climax at My mercy. I love building you up and holding that orgasm out of reach. I actually count to see how many times I can do it.
Admit it, when you finally reach the orgasm, it was worth the pain and pleasure you went thru and you can’t wait to do it again…and again…and again.
New Year’s Resolutions
Well…I guess I should share My resolutions…
Spank more subs…
Whip more subs into shape…
Restrain more subs…
Perform more golden showers…
Use My toys on more subs…
Teach new subs how to be proper subs…
….eh, bottom line is for Me to enjoy Myself more this year and torment more subs in whatever way I can think of…
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Happy New Year!!
Happy Naughty New Year!!
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you
make love to me
devour me with your body
make me yours
fill my mind and body with you
become one with me
fill my senses with your scent
make my body crave only your touch
train my tongue to know only yours
erase the cold memories
warm my heart with your passion
tease my body back to life
Leotards and Tights
Had a great scene over the weekend – new fetish scene – sub was into leotards and tights….after he changed, I bound his ankles and legs tight and he very much enjoyed that…I bound his wrists behind his back and put him face down…he also had a foot fetish that he wasn’t aware of… and oh yes, I took full advantage.
It’s something about having a new sub to break into the scene – his interests are different from other subs and that’s fun – to explore his kinky side with him…to help him grow…to help him appreciate that side of himself…to see the light come on in his eyes as he realizes that he’s not disgusting and the smile that dances along his lips as he realizes that he can enjoy his fetishes in a safe environment.
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Feelings Inside…
I hate the feelings inside
They are choking the life out of me
I want to curl up on my side
And close my eyes to the world
Turn back the hands of time
To when life was simpler
Life was full of pleasure
Pleasure was full of passion
Passion…
My life is empty without it
I am having withdrawals
Passion was my drug
I craved it every day
I still crave it every day
I need it coursing thru my veins
I need it…like I need air
Sugar Daddy
I’m desperate – I’m about to lose my apartment and I don’t have anyone I can turn to. I’m short on money….bills are due…car needs work…what am I going to do? I look online and an ad catches my attention.
‘Sugar Babies wanted – make $20k in ONE month’
I can do that – right? What do I have to lose by being a sugar baby? It’s just sex and I’m a nympho so that should be easy.
Before I change my mind, I click on the ad and fill out the questionnaire. I snap a few naughty pictures of myself in lingerie and post them. A private message screen pops up and I click on it.
‘Hello Beautiful. My name is Mark. I love your pics.’
Thinking of the bills, I type my response and hit send.